"Why do I get all pains in life...why am I the one to suffer...why has the fate to play against me...I had always been good to others then why...why me.."
Isn’t this something that we always ask from the all powerful Almighty...isn’t it something that we tell ourself whenever we are depressed..Infact it is, atleast with most of us if not all...we often feel that we have a greater share of suffering than others but the fact is that The Universe provides a balance of happiness and suffering to each one of us. Each one has equal suffering and equal happiness in life...if we are receiving greater suffering than it only means that we are entitled to greater happiness which is on its way to us... This is what I call the Balancing Theory of life.
When we suffer, we have the realisation that we are suffering and we complain to God, to fate but when we receive happiness, we seldom realise that we are lucky and more seldom do we thank God and Fate for it. When we are sad , we can see others being happy and enjoying and so we think that life is more miserable for us than for others but the fact is even those that seems to be happy now would also have suffered but then at that time may be we are happy in our own world to notice their sadness. Now happiness and Sadness is something self defined and accordingly the nature of it differs from person to person but what remains same is the balance. By balance, I mean that the total amount of it (if it could have been measured in numerical terms) remains the same. The intensity though differs from time to time from person to person but be rest assured that other things remaining same if u r receiving more of one thing then u will receive an equal amount of other. It actually works on the Newton’s third law of motion “for every action there is equal and opposite reaction.” But it is to be noted that when we are happy we should have the fear that something bad is going to happen because if we are positive we can easily change the factors and could avoid a part of suffering which may come.
So if are feeling sad don’t think that you are the only one who is suffering or you are unlucky or something like that...Believe me..each one has equal suffering and that the suffering would bring an equal amount of happiness...
The reason why I chose to write on this topic was because I m not in the best of my moods but after writing on this topic I have reinstalled my faith in my balancing theory and I hope that everything would be fine....
Isn’t this something that we always ask from the all powerful Almighty...isn’t it something that we tell ourself whenever we are depressed..Infact it is, atleast with most of us if not all...we often feel that we have a greater share of suffering than others but the fact is that The Universe provides a balance of happiness and suffering to each one of us. Each one has equal suffering and equal happiness in life...if we are receiving greater suffering than it only means that we are entitled to greater happiness which is on its way to us... This is what I call the Balancing Theory of life.
When we suffer, we have the realisation that we are suffering and we complain to God, to fate but when we receive happiness, we seldom realise that we are lucky and more seldom do we thank God and Fate for it. When we are sad , we can see others being happy and enjoying and so we think that life is more miserable for us than for others but the fact is even those that seems to be happy now would also have suffered but then at that time may be we are happy in our own world to notice their sadness. Now happiness and Sadness is something self defined and accordingly the nature of it differs from person to person but what remains same is the balance. By balance, I mean that the total amount of it (if it could have been measured in numerical terms) remains the same. The intensity though differs from time to time from person to person but be rest assured that other things remaining same if u r receiving more of one thing then u will receive an equal amount of other. It actually works on the Newton’s third law of motion “for every action there is equal and opposite reaction.” But it is to be noted that when we are happy we should have the fear that something bad is going to happen because if we are positive we can easily change the factors and could avoid a part of suffering which may come.
So if are feeling sad don’t think that you are the only one who is suffering or you are unlucky or something like that...Believe me..each one has equal suffering and that the suffering would bring an equal amount of happiness...
The reason why I chose to write on this topic was because I m not in the best of my moods but after writing on this topic I have reinstalled my faith in my balancing theory and I hope that everything would be fine....
